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«Oldest ‹Older 401 – 600 of 616 Newer› Newest»menage a trois? where obviously I'm the King lol
Heaven won't come down and solve your problems lol
Is it possible to successfully love two people at once?
I would say yes some people claim you can love two people at once. I don't recommend it nor understand it. Personally, I haven't loved two people at the same time. I've loved someone, but been in love with someone else and it usually had held me back from letting myself fully get involved in the relationship. I always kept thinking about the other person. It wasn't fair and morally it just didn't feel right to me.
If not, then one is well-advised to choose, one over the other, no?
Yes, all major debacles in life require a decision to be made. Life is a big ball of decision. And you're the only one that can throw it. No one else can make the decision for you. And whatever decision you do make you have to remember that there are other influences that factor in to whether or not your decision is even worthy. What if you make the decision and other person you chose changed their mind and decided you weren't right for them?
It's a gamble. Everything is. Heaven doesn't make everyone happy ... you make yourself happy and being in love isn't the only attribute that justifies happiness. What justifies happiness is what you do with love when you found/have it. At least in my opinion.
A menage a trois? You want to be king?
Suppose your female lover decides she wants a menage a trois with you and another man? Where both you, and she, get to be queens? :)
but which kind of King?
The KingBurger?
The King of fighters?
The King of the World ... ?
The King of the World! ;D
Susane,
Unfortunately, Heaven often seems far away when you need it most. The direct intervention of Heaven in such matters is a rare thing indeed.
On the other hand, people falling in love with each other happens all the time. Notice that 99% (I'm estimating, obviously :)) of music, literature, and film is about one person who loves more than one, or vice versa.
Yes, the easy "solution" is simply to say, "choose one and be done with it". Of course, if you happen to be the one not chosen, it doesn't seem like such a great solution after all.
I don't have any general solutions to offer, sadly. Every situation is different, obviously. But Heaven isn't helping much, or even offering good advice. We're on our own, as you pointed out.
King of love.
Or queen, as the case may be. :)
The king of the world usually requires a queen of the world and I don't know about you guys, but I haven't met too many queens out there that would be willing to share their "king of the world."
PS..making me laugh about what kind of king you want to be.
I can understand loving 5 people at the same time, but 2? Come on! if you love 2 you can love 3 and 4 and 5! LOL
Miss Philosophy,
Personally, I haven't loved two people at the same time.
Is sexual love completely different than other love?
Fact is, most of us love many different people at the same time, in varying degrees and ways, and differently, in different situations.
If one divorces sex from love, is it possible to truly love another partner in life? I'm not talking here about a relationship where sex existed at the outset, and one of the partners became ill or disabled, etc., etc. I'm asking if it's possible for two adults to love each other, without sex, with the same "love" as lovers do?
there are different types of love, the romantic one, can you feel a romantic love without being grateful? I don't think so, and for that you don't need more than 1 romantic love, so you are grateful for that... something like that. That 3 people love, it could be, just like a comet, you see it now, enjoy it.... it's gone. Nice nice :)
3 and 4 and 5
This poster must be female. She doesn't quite appreciate the hard work that faces men coping with such monumental love. :)
Male fantasies such as this rarely work out as planned. Ask any of your friends, such as the Sultan of Brunei, who has a harem. He'll tell you what a headache they are.
you haven't seen nothing out there I think .... lol
No, sexual love is not completely different then love...it's a higher formation of basic love I guess you can say. I should have been more precise my fault. I meant sexually loving someone like in a relationship with two people at one time. Love comes in many forms.
Fact is, most of us love many different people at the same time, in varying degrees and ways, and differently, in different situations.
If one divorces sex from love, is it possible to truly love another partner in life?
I guess, but I don't know about you, but I need lovin' and a lot of it. So maybe for you, but not for me...
I'm asking if it's possible for two adults to love each other, without sex, with the same "love" as lovers do?
I guess it is, but I wouldn't want to live that way. That's just my personal preference. This queens got to be satisfied sorry!
No, sadly, my harem experience is somewhat limited. Far less than yours, I can see.
I distinctly recall reading about such things as harem intrigues, kings who rarely visited their harems not to mention actually satisfying them, jealousy on a truly magnificent scale, etc., etc.
In any case, you don't have to go all the way to the Middle or Far East. Affairs and various degrees of illegitimacy have been the subject of court intrigues, and war, in Europe for thousands of years.
One passionate woman is enough to keep most men very, very busy. 5??? You've got to be kidding.
Miss Philosophy,
You see? It isn't the same thing.
Yet people persist in falling love, willy nilly, with different people, often at the same time, all over the place.
Keeping the reigns on love is much easier theorized than practiced, it seems to me. :)
no, you love a lot of them, then... you go with your King of the World, and he looks back all proud like "You see, all the pretenders she has... well, she is mine now" and then the Queen says "......", ... "YES!" and [ -censored- ]
^_^
Steve,
Is there not basic human love for one another before sexual love...I don't know about you, but I tend to find qualities in a person that I know I love for them just being themselves before I get involved sexually with them. Sex isn't sex to me...it's a transfer of passion between two individuals that hopefully feel they are compatible enough for each other.
I know most people walk all over the beauty of love. It happens everyday. Again can't change others just keep your morals in tact that's all you can really do. Treat people the way you want to be treated and hopefully it comes back to you and you get the love you deserve in return.
You shouldn't have to keep reigns on love. Love should be enough to make both of you hold on.
reigns of love?
When love reigns it pours.
could we kill someone in the reign of love? :(
Sometimes it's sacrificial suicide if you're not careful. Are you asking me personally?
sacrificial suicide? what is that? :)
We all make sacrifices everyday. Like sacrificing oneself for love and if your lover does not sacrifice the same for you in return and it becomes too big of a problem to ignore that it destroys your relationship. That's sacrificial suicide.
It's just another way of saying taking chances, but what happens when things blow up in your face. Think about it, it's suicide...once your lover leaves you for whatever reason, good or not, they are gone. You are alone to put yourself back together again.
Yes, but you chose to do that and that is fine so the one that loves the most also enjoys the most ...
I don't see it like that. I don't think one person should love more than the other...there are some things that just can't be measured that being one because when you try to you end up hampering the relationship. Categorizing every bit of love, every act of love and no one can really determine the guidelines. Like there's no rubric or anything is that's what you're interpreting...
I don't know, but really, you can't fake love, can you? you feel it you express it as much as you can with your being, either you can force the other person to love you ... what I mean is at the end is something natural you have to make it work, but ... when it is not it's not. But you have to work on it, that is for sure, always :)
It seems to me the truly essential ingredients in romantic love (i.e., love+sex) are intimacy and commitment.
Intimacy includes emotional and intellectual intimacy, not just sex. Commitment involves time and money, and other resources, but most of all, focus. Focus is attention and prioritization.
If each lover is getting enough of each to make him/her happy, then the relationship is working.
wow! quantum-love :D
Focus? I try to focus all the time, but then the gnomes come and spoil all my hard work and I'm like mmmmmmhhh ¿? "Ok, let's do that ... "
lol ;)
I think it isn't possible to fake love or loving another person, but it's possible to fake not loving them. Loving them is a feeling that is so strong that cannot helped being expressed. Yes, you do have to make it work that's true...but the burden of making it work is lessened with higher amounts of compatibility between two people. The more compatible those two people are in love the less they have to work on keeping things together. Makes sense right?
You can add oranges and apples, but you're just going to get Oran-pples (haha, lol) and that's not a bad thing at all. What I'm trying to say is that you would get more bi-product trying to evaluate apples to apples/oranges to oranges. Etc...
You have to work for everything in life to get the outcome you want. Some people don't even know what it is they are working for they just go through the motions.
question:
other resources means "diamonds" .. maybe?
I go through the motions and that is good :)
lol, ok going with the motions is a good thing I didn't say it was bad. I guess what I meant was just that people never question the relationship they are in because they fear they can't or won't find anything better. They just settle and hey thats all good, but if you're not happy you shouldn't stay in a relationship just because you fear being alone. When you are alone it's not a bad thing just more of an opportunity to find what you really want.
Re: "reigns of love" jokes and puns
OK. Have your fun, everyone. I admit it, the metaphor may leave something to be desired.
Although, come to think of it, "reigns of love" does sound like a good title for an interesting novel. Hmmmmm .... :)
I'm flexible with all those kind of things except when my heart says something, when it does, I move on as soon as possible. I think my heart uses me ..... mmmmhh :(
ever question the relationship they are in because they fear they can't or won't find anything better. They just settle
How would you feel, if the person you loved was out shopping for a "better" lover all the time, instead of "settling" for you?
Yeah that sounds like a great title for a novel. I want 15%...just playing!
I know I know !!
I will get someone faster than him! :D (with the gnome's help of course lol )
Diamonds? Yes, diamonds go a long, long way in satisfying the requirements of a mutually satisfactory relationship. Especially, many of them.
I didn't say shop for another lover while you're with your lover. It's common courtesy to just let them know how you feel from the door. At the time you feel it. If someone I was involved in a relationship didn't think we were working out and felt like moving on I'd say that's fine but at least have the heart to me. I wouldn't be worried about it...you can't change the way people feel. And if they came back because they had some wild illuminating epiphany that I was the one well...then...that's a gamble they will have to take cause I just might not available for them.
And big ones.
Fuck diamonds...they were nothing but pieces of coal to begin with. Pardon my french, lol.
Sometimes you can explain to your partner everything you feel right? and that it's over right? and they beg you not to go, they really do it, but then they do the same wicked things to you on and on. You can't stay with someone for pity, that is the real insulting thing.
Susane,
"quantum-love". I love it. :):o ;)
Are diamonds part of quantum-love?
I trust that the sequence and syntax of my hieroglyphics is acceptable.
Miss Philsophy and Susane,
I agree. Communication makes all the difference. Just make sure to tell the other person how you feel first, *before* you go shopping for a new lover.
Miss Philosophy,
No diamonds?
I take it, then, that you are not a material girl.
Fur sure...talk before shop. I agree Steve.
But if diamonds are the girl's best friend and you are always with your man .... you might need a friend to talk to sometimes, don't you?
but yeah, you are right, gnomes are funnier :D
I like to look nice, but diamonds and material things aren't a necessity. If it was a token of feelings given to me by someone I love I would accept it with open, thankful and appreciative arms (or harms, or whatever the hell we were calling them earlier)...but I don't "need" them to survive.
oh! they know they know is all in the air lol
Oh, is that what that is? I thought I smelled something delicious in the air.
I love jewels, I have a lot, but not diamonds at all, I prefer swarosky, gold .... I know I lied again :'(
ey! since when people shop for love? we wish it was that easy hahahaha most of the times you end up alone, and like was said before you don't know if the other person is even seriously interested in you so ... but, I don't care being alone, I feel love and I know it will catch me. But not everybody is like that you know, this feeling is gold.
Susane,
Who is this 'gnome' who keeps cropping up in your posts?
Gnomes live underground and they love gold. Are you "workin' in a gold mine" somewhere?
Tell me something only I know.
You know what rabbits like.
If I told you something only you knew then so would everyone else. Rabbits are fickle. They eat berries and carrots and I don't believe they should be kept in cages.
are you free to roam?
No.
So you're in a cage eh? I hope it's pimping!
Steve,
RE: I, too, have been struck by this feeling among some of us, perhaps all of us here. At first I assumed that the feeling must exist because one's lover was, at least at one time, a participant or observer at the blog. But then I came to realize, as each of us has noticed, that we are really talking about a wild hope that God, or fate, sheer will, or the mysterious power of love itself, will someone alert our lost lover to our presence here, to hear our desperate mayday call.
I never meant to imply people think the physical mind of their loved one is actively observing this blog.
I meant it metaphorically. So many are, after all, addressing the annonyii.
aka
When you reach a crossroads, if your heart wants to go one way, but your lover insists on going the other, what should you do?
Make sure your lover wants to be in the car, stop arguing start talking and throw out the map. You are on an adventure to uncharted territory, after all.
ps. there is no leader
I like that. Maps are only good for marking off where you've been as far as relationships are concerned.
PS this was my word I had to type for word verification to submit this post...menfrigu
Those words always crack me up, lol. :)
I had a very nice answer to the question of whether or not two people can love each other without sex and it was eaten by the gnomes :(
or anywhere: ongho@yahoo.com
what is that e-mail address? :)
Ask any question my dear Henry...
But know you must also answer mine :)
The email address is for you, and only you (assuming you're you, of course. :)) Much more respectable than 32 rue blondel.
As to answering questions, gladly. Not in public, though, I hope!? (hint, hint: email) Anais isn't an exhibitionist, is she? :)
but how do I know that that `you´ is `me´? maybe is not
:D I know what I'm gonna do!!
Finish your letter, and send it to me. I may be a satisfactory (or at least, acceptable) substitute for the original target. Or, maybe not. But still a friend.
How do you know, that you are you? I've never been asked a question like that before. I hope other questions are easier than that one. :)
It was you, and only you, who told the rabbit not to be afraid, and offered him a carrot, remember? The rabbit trusted you. He came back, remember?
Besides, if it's not you, I won't answer the email. You, and only you, get an answer. :)
So you are a rabbit?
Henry is not a rabbit, nor is he an acceptable substitute for a rabbit...but a rabbit is indeed, a girl's best friend, lol ;)
Haha rabbits are girls best friends...way better than diamonds or pearls. You can give me a carrot anytime. lol. WTH is up with the email situation?
I have noooo idea lol
Rabbits are not girl's best friends, the best friend of a girl is her imagination :D
imagination and/or gnomes ?
Yessss imagination! I have many other good qualities as well.
like what?
Sent the email. You know, you're pretty bold Henry. You're going to get 100s of emails from strange girls :)
Lucky for you, you always did know how to quell the femme fatale -
I'm funny, smart, beautiful, intelligent (well kind of the same thing as smart, but not). Ummm, faithful, truthful, original, real, down to earth, friendly, loving, hopeful, spiritual...
I'm not saying I'm purrrfect tho by any means. And that's probably my most attractive quality because realizing that forces you see the big picture holistically from a different angle. I have an awareness that there is something more important out there than just me. And I attempt to live my life that way everyday. No BS!
do you know puuuurfect people? :)
ok, what about the defects? you have any?
I don't know any purrrfect people. I know people who think they are puuuurfect! I try to only surround myself with people that mirror the demeanor I want to maintain. Positive attracts positive and so on and so forth.
Of course I have downfalls. Who doesn't? I can be a real bitch sometimes, stubborn, I procrastinate, I shut myself down/avoid sometimes. I would say I could care less what people say about me and it looks like that to the outside world, but I sometimes doubt myself deep down which usually leads to avoidance issue. But if someone has something negative to say about me I try to use it to make minor adjustments to the inner. Sometimes I have such strong opinions about things there is no budging though.
If you were perfect in an imperfect world, you would have to be worried all the time, I think is better to be imperfect right now :)
I agree, I'm the biggest worrier out there. I over analyze things constantly. I will probably give myself a stroke one day. I hope not tho. Also, I'd like to add that being a worrier is not always a bad thing...sometimes you make good decisions based around the thinking that takes place behind the worrying. Even tho it stresses you out big time.
Then again sometimes you avoid things because you worry about them too much. It's a never ending battle.
So then you are admiting that you are perfect right?
Um no how did you decipher that I am saying that I am perfect? I'm not perfect. Just perfect for someone else out there.
REPEAT:
If you were perfect in an imperfect world, you would have to be worried all the time, I think is better to be imperfect right now :)
Maybe you are perfect for me :)
you are so sexy it hurts you
Oh, sorry I missed that. That's another one of my downfalls...sometimes I read too quickly. Maybe I am perfect for you.
Perfect in an imperfect world. I get you. I so get you.
Dearest Anais,
Ah, you are such stuff as dreams are made on.
Your Henry
did you find your Anais yet? :)
what are you dreaming about?
500! :D
500 emails from strange girls?
champagne everyone! hahaha ;)
You guys (and gals) are sooooo nosy. :)
It is for Anais to say with whom she may choose to correspond. As for me, I dream, of course, of Anais.
What are we toasting to?
That last post of 6:02pm was by me.
Henry
Anais belongs to Henry right?
well, I'm not Anais, actually my real name is..... oooopppss hahaha ;)
What good are 500 girls, if you can't have the only one you want?
Someone bragged earlier about being able to handle 5 simultaneous relationships with women. But 500? I wonder if it's possible for sex to be fatal? :)
hahahahaha! O_o
Miss Philosophy,
Let's toast to your cheerful outlook on life!
What's the bubbly for?
As I recall, femmes fatales belong to no one. Isn't it the other way around? :)
the bubbly is for luring Anais, is my guess
we all have to settle down sooner or later
why must we settle down? why can't we fly forever?
because you need to make new birdies for they to fly too? .... for example hihihi ;)
i don't want a new birdie, maybe just a change of masks would be better after all
pic pic pic pic
that's not a bird noise
that is because is eating
what is it then? is it code?
what is it eating?
look, is eating, the birdy is eating
birdy's milk?
ew. I hope birdy's milk is more enjoyable than it sounds!
don't know, never tried it before
Maybe the bird is walking?
birdy birdy
The bird isn't caged she loves flying!
yeah, birds fly
I think the most important question is, how do you make new birdies?
Nesting?
Put a tooth under your pillow?
you have this special ceremony, you kiss with your bird-partner and suddenly it comes this light, and there you have it a big egg...
Blinded by the light!
birds do not have sex, all is spiritual and magical ........
............
hahahahahhahahahaahahahaha
Lil birdies I don't have any..someday tho. Salute...
you were a birdy once
And so were you. Birds of a feather flock together...
you might not have a lil birdie, but you can still listen to them sing
I like it when all the gnomes and birdies come out to play here. I hope Iain likes it too
lalala
So what was 500 again? 500 what?
500 birdies
My guess is still that it was five hundred strange girls.
That's a lot of birds...you sure you want that many?
500 strange girls? don't think so, I don't think more than 2 actually :)
Somebody, please explain the birds and the bees to me. And "gnomes".
Are we referring to girls as "birds"? (What are men, then?)
And who are the gnomes that Susane referred to yesterday, and Anonymous is mentioning now?
(Is it my imagination? Some of the anomymii must be playing hanky panky, because they seem to be multiplying like bunnies. OK, like birdies.)
500 is to even of a number for it to be just emails. My guess is that the number 500 is some sort of milestone. A number that was justified to equal the quantity of 500 of one thing.
Bzzzz!
Let's see ... if you had 500 girls, you could uh, visit, each of them about every 2.5 years.
500 is 500, no tricky
I'm not going to pass third grade math, obviously. Make that every 1.5 years.
the gnomes are invisible and imaginary
the birdies are babies
the bees... ¿?
The gnomes distract Susan, the birdies are being made new (for what, I don't know), 500 is the number of comments, and the bees are playing hanky-panky?
And, my word verification was entreati
interesting
2 is perfect. Bees = bzzz!
entreati means like "get him/her" lol something like that
pic pic pic pic
I'm sorry I didn't spell your name right, Susane
:) Hope you were not upset
It's ok
pic pic pic pic
Picking at the ground, looking for worms?
pic me up love before you go go
♥
Uh oh. My word verification was,a big, fat, lower-case, "inter". I wonder if that means the blog is going to "inter" this post, they way it did two or three posts yesterday?
why would the blog do that?
Mine was "tabet" ..... my life is too ironic! damn...
I'm guessing that a collision must have occurred within the database. Still, what we're doing here is almost nothing in terms of stress on a database. Does anyone know what database software blogger.com uses?
It seems to me from yesterday that it might also involve a situation where you type in the verification word and then edit the post, then (without previewing) click "publish". If that's the case, it's just a bug.
Is anyone planning on sticking around to reach 600 posts?
......
Oh im planning on staying here for the rest of my life, but I don't know about on this particular thread tho. :)
if we do stick around, we should talk about something that won't drive Iain crazy when he has to see all these comments. and ideas?
I need a translator. It looks like R2D2 is trying to say something important.
what is he trying to say? let's you and me get out of here?
who's R2D2? lol
OK. Let's talk about something lain likes. What does lain like? Are not many posts a good thing? It means his blog is popular. What kind of name is "lain", anyway? French?
Maybe R2D2 is warning us that Darth Vader is approaching.
(My word verification was "pringy". Pringy. I like it. Pringy. Pring-pring-pringy.)
I don't know what lain likes...Does lain even respond to the posts does anyone know?
is a celtic name
Miss Philosophy,
You've never heard of R2D2? How about Luke Skywalker?
means "God's present"
what about "Chiguaka" ?
I would guess, from his blog, that Iain likes Love. Beyond that I'm at a loss.
Although, now that I've gone and said it, I'm not so sure I can assume her likes Love.
R2D2 might be the word verification
I know. I know. I'm Americanized for heaven's sake. haha. I was just asking who you were referring to.
Verification word... totonin lol
maybe R2D2 is what the birdie says when it's making light and magic happen
Very modest. "Steve" means crown. My brother, Bill, is saddled with a name that means "iron helmet". Whoever said life is fair?
"Chiguaka" is the name of an ancient Toltec Chieftan, famous for a 25-step pyramid in which mysterious crystal skulls have been found, by anthropologists who invariably died within several weeks of their discovery.
like the witness in there
No, that's gotta be one syllable. Something like "Eeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!"
Is lain female or male? Does lain do the writing? Where does he/she get the photographs?
Haha, yinz are too funny! Why doesn't everyone just give themselves a Anon name so I at least know who I am responding too when speaking. It's confusing the hell out me. Pretty please with a cherry on top?!?!
or MMMMMMMMMMMMM!
ok, I'll be Anon 101
my word verification owwor
maybe that's what the birdies say when they're making magic
Here's an idea. We could call change our name to "Miss Philosophy". Imagine how confusing that would be to a new visitor to the blog? In fact, we ought to try it, just for fun.
My word verification this time was a misspelling: "eroor". This database word verification program needs to marry a good spell checker.
"owwor" sounds like "hour"
I want to get a drink but I'm afraid to walk away and miss the exciting climax at 600.
I'm hoping there will be balloons or something
pic pic pic pic
Is it OK to scream "MMMMMMMMMMMMM!", if you're a man?
My word verification is "quersen". Does it have something against gay people?
I don't think Miss Philosophy would like that. She might stop talking to us, and then where would we be?
Who's gonna be 600?
My word verification is "perming". That reminds me, I need a haircut.
I heard noise makers! No balloons, though
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